Sunday, February 25, 2018

Let the Little Children Come...

The nature of this trip was not unlike that of the previous ones.
 We went in to do construction, host children's programs, youth programs, community programs and this year we added a women's night. That was one of my favorite nights, so I will save that for last. But even though the work is similar, there are always different results and different experiences.
 For today's blog, I focus on the children of Brisas del Mar.

 I am more immersed with the Youth probably than I am with the kids, or maybe it's that there are more children than teens so I remember the teens' names better. But these kids are just precious. They laugh and love and fight and cry just like the kids here. But there is an element to them not found always in our surroundings in the states, which is hard to pinpoint.

 The majority of the kids are loving, outgoing, hungry to take photos with us and happy to play the simplest of games. This year we did a puppet show with them for one of the activities and they just thought it was the most fun thing to make their own paper puppet and act out the story we'd just told. (Once they figured out how to do the puppet, that is.)
 And with the Fun Fest we do each year, the kids come for temporary tattoos and face painting and carnival games. Only, the games are different. Throw a sponge onto a frisbee to make it land; blow a ping pong ball into a cup; toss rings. They don't get a prize, they just play... and they are happy to do so. Face painting and tattoos are the biggest hits of the event, of course. We watch them laugh and play and have fun and in the end, they line up and get a small goodie bag to take home.
  One night (although I am not doing this story justice because I only caught pieces of it) when we were meeting with the youth, the other part of the team was entertaining all the kids that came. And somehow it would seem there became a game being played with a sock? Maybe they were tossing a sock around? Whatever the case is, the point is that it doesn't take silver and gold to entertain these kids. They are happy to be loved, and to play the simple games just for fun.

 The kids love their photos taken and their eyes tell stories of life in Brisas del Mar that we can not capture with words. They are of a rich heritage, but as the village grows and progresses, the children are beginning to have better opportunities than in the previous generations. The children flock from person to person, holding up their thumbs for photos to be taken and then of course wanting to see how they looked.

 I was really struck though by one particular moment with a child. I don't know his name. But you'll see photos below. At the Fun Fest, the teens help and so we as the team members get to just really (eventually) enjoy what is going on rather than run the games entirely. As I was milling about, taking photos and talking to the children, a little boy landed in front of me and was so sweet, I just had to pick him up. I miss those young toddler days of my own, and holding on to those in Brisas del Mar is special. And so I picked this little boy up. It was evident he was tired, though he wasn't grumpy. I just could see it in his eyes. And so I began to sway back and forth with him. He fought it for a bit but eventually, he was asleep in my arms.
 I can't tell you the last time I had a child that size sleeping in my arms. I savored the moment. But as I was holding on to him, soaking in the innocence and also watching the kids laugh and play around me, I thought how Jesus said in the Bible, "Let the little children come to me."
  Jesus loves those little children. He loves us adults too. But so often, especially in a community like Brisas, it can happen where the kids get a little less importance. But Jesus said "let them come to me." And as I watched the kids play and held this sleeping toddler, that was impressed upon my heart.

 Let the children come to me.

 Jesus made the kids important, too, in a world where they may have been disregarded somewhat, too. Let's face it.... I won't generalize all of society, but so often we get focused on our adult worlds that we forget to be like a child, and we can forget to love those children in the ways they need and deserve . Watching these kids take in the joys... That is Jesus personified. That is what we are supposed to be about. Meeting people where they are. Appreciating their level (or even lack of). Letting the children come to him in freedom and laughter and love.
 He valued them.

 We valued them as well. Not to glorify us, but so that God might be glorified. So that they might come to know Him one day.

 I won't forget that moment. I certainly won't forget the children in Brisas. They laugh and laugh and teach me to laugh as well at my mistakes, at my messy hair and at life. They have nothing... we watch them come for the feeding program and they have nothing, but they have a hope. A hope we often ourselves lose in the midst of busy days and adult worries. And I love the hope that they bring to life rekindles the fire in me, too.

 Let the little children come...

Often songs from my childhood come back to me, especially in moments like that. And I recall the song "Red and Yellow Black and White they are precious in His sight. Jesus love the little children of the world."




Making Puppets

Coloring Sheets



We put together school bags for all the kids, and here they are lining up to receive them.

Saturday, February 24, 2018

There's No Place Like Home....

With what sits on my plate as part of my tasks this year in life, I have not had the time to blog so much. However, I have just returned from my third time to Brisas del Mar, Colombia, and it always deserves some blog spots.
 And not just that it deserves blogs to share about the beautiful people there, but it also helps me find ways to put into words and process the incredible experiences. It helps me fill in a small way the huge void that sits in my soul as I say "Until next time" to my Colombian family.

 And so today, as I am continuing to reflect on those moments, on one hand my heart is so full from the love and the people and the experiences. And yet on yet another hand, my heart breaks and is so sad from separating from the village that has captured my soul.

 Perhaps I say - or will say- this every trip, but it holds true : this was my best trip ever of all the 3. The team I traveled with was really wonderful and surpassed the teamwork in a way I didn't expect. There were only 9 of us, and all except one had been there before. Mike, Paula, Mark, Ed, Jay, Keith, Diana and Steve. I felt more immersed in the community this time than ever. ( That grows each time) And the events we had were beautiful, not to mention watching more people filter in to the church service and the goodbye service than I'd ever seen there before.

 I never quite know how to break these blogs down, as the experiences are vast and the emotions run deep. Breaking down by days feels a little overwhelming because we do so much in a day, and yet breaking down by experience would be a book. And so I will just write as it sits with me. Today: an overview.

 When we arrived the kids held a Welcome sign in Colombian colors, yet written in English. The pastor had the Colombian and American flags hanging side by side with a small banner saying "Bienvenidos" which means welcome. While there were not as many kids milling about upon our arrival, the love was thick in the air. Yuleida, Miguel and Javier all there, amongst others, and with the biggest bear hugs ever. I was not just coming back to Brisas del Mar. I was not just going to a place to do work and help.

 I was home.

 I have said that in blogs before about Brisas, but it never escapes me. It has become my home. The people love us as their own.

 We shared much laughter, jokes, food, many tears and some beautiful experiences. We saw on this trip more people attend church and the community's goodbye to us than we ever had before. We felt the love in a profound way. It doesn't matter how many times I've gone, God always teaches me, always shows up in new ways and his presence is evident. The world around us changes every day, but the love of God and His presence never does. It only grows more beautiful.

 How do I begin to put these experiences into words? I'll try my best to recap in new ways. We put together school bags, met new friends, deepened old relationships. worked on the construction, had youth nights, women's night, children programs, we danced, we ate and shared life. The community is reshaping and growing and God is at work. They now have a working well!!! How beautiful that was (and that will get a whole blog) to see them have REAL CLEAN water for the first time ever! Can you even imagine?? Something so simple for us is something so precious to them. That never ceases to amaze me, to teach me.

 And so in the next couple of weeks, when I can find the space to do so, I will share. I learned more about the country on this trip (in part for a research project for my Spanish class) but they have a fascinating history, one we can't begin to fathom.

 Every person has a story. That is true here as much as it is there. And every person wants their story to be heard. It is a beautiful moment to take in those stories, because when we do, we can learn in profound ways. They continue to change my life.... and I hope in a small way, through my sharing of the experience, they can change yours too.

 This blog today is titled There is No Place Like Home... and I am blessed to have this home here in Ohio as well as a home in  Brisas del Mar. There is no place like home. That is true. And when I leave here I miss my family ... but go see my Colombian family. When I leave them, the gap is just as big in my goodbyes because they are a part of my heart just as much. There is no place like home... and I look forward to sharing about my second home over the next few days.

 I don't know how long God will ask me to go back there, to be used there, to be taught in my own life while I am there. but until He redirects me, I will follow. It's a beautiful thing to see His work.

 More blogs to come....